Au Pair in Europe: what a real day looks like

The au pair programme is one of the most affordable ways to live abroad, learn a language and grow up fast — but what does an ordinary day actually look like? Here's the reality, minus the filter.

Mornings

Most au pairs help get the children ready for school — breakfast, packing bags, the school run. Then you usually have a few hours to yourself: language classes, a run, coffee with other au pairs, or simply exploring your new town.

Afternoons and evenings

School pick-up, homework help, playtime and preparing a simple meal are typical. You are part of the family, not staff — evenings and weekends are often free to travel. Many au pairs see five or six countries in a year.

The honest bits

• Homesickness is normal in the first month. It passes.
• Communication with your host family is everything — agree on hours and expectations early.
• Your stipend is pocket money, not a salary; budget accordingly.

Easy Gate matches you with vetted host families and stays in touch throughout your placement, so you're never on your own.